♥iloveyoumorethanlifeitself♥: LESSONS.

superkaeyen:

I’ve learned that we should learn to love ourself first before we could love others.

That nothing hurts more than being disappointed by the single person you thought would never hurt you.

I’ve learned that sometimes the best way to show them how much you love them is to let go of them. If…

Defining a relationship can be so difficult. What if you both want the same core thing, but you want it to stem into two different things? I want you, I’m happy with how things are right now, but somewhere down the road I see myself wanting something you can’t or won’t give me. Of the two of us, I see me being the one that wants “hearts and flowers”. I don’t want to be so easily disposable to you. I think I have to take today to really define what this means to me, and I guess I’ll know from there if I can continue this.
Love

williamchapmanwritings:

Love isn’t what we talk about

Love isn’t what we say

For Love is how we feel inside

And long for everyday

At times we spend our life in search

Of Love that isn’t there

We find someone to share our bed

But not someone who cares

So if the one you think you Love

Is not afraid to share

Then you won’t have to say the word

They’ll know how much you care

And if that Love was meant to be

Then somewhere up above

God will never see you part

And he created Love

In time, the hurt began to fade and it was easier to just let it go. At least I thought it was. But in every girl I met in the next few years, I found myself looking for you, and when the feelings got too strong, I’d write you another letter. But I never sent them for fear of what I might find. By then, you’d gone on with your life and I didn’t want to think about you loving someone else. I wanted to remember us like we were that summer. I didn’t ever want to lose that.
The Notebook, Nicholas Sparks (via onceuponalesbian)